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I was released about four weeks ago and I was quite stressed. To be completely honest, I didn't really want to leave. The truth is, I loved prison and it became part of my identity. It was a place where I could do all the things I love without getting sucked into the outside world full of distractions that can take you for a mad ride. The outside can become overwhelming: the stress of not knowing where you're going to sleep; if you can afford your next meal; or if you can even bear to see your family after slipping up and relapsing into drug use. I know these problems all too well.
But I want to figure out how to make it work on the outside. I want to be closer to the path of freedom. So I thought I'd share some little tricks that I have been implementing to try to keep me less distracted.
There are a lot of things we think about when we are locked up: plans for the future, bucket lists, training routines. We write them down with high hopes only to get out and never look at those books and lists full of dreams.
Being close to everything is how we are naturally supposed to live. But now in the last hundred or so years, we started expanding yet isolating at the same time. We built a system dependent on working for other people to help them achieve their goals. We once would work our crops and animals to feed and spend time with our families. Now we sacrifice the majority of our time doing jobs for the sake of others. We forget who we are, we forget what we love, we get told what to do but don't get informed how to be.
If there's one thing I can take from prison that we can use in society is try to remember to take the time to disconnect from the expectations of society and do the things that you love.
Take a break from being a part of the world. Use maybe 30 mins everyday to turn off all devices and do something that you would do while you were in prison. Read, cook, paint, train, write, or just simply talk to the people around you.
One example which has worked for me is finding something that I can use as a form of muster. Being a convert to Islam, I've started using the midday 12:30 prayer as my half-way point of the day. So just like in prison when I would train until 10:30 then eat etc,, this is something that I found I can do to muster myself and break up the overwhelmingly long days where we can do both everything and nothing.
I must admit it is more difficult on the outside to remember to break up the day but I'm quite lucky that I have a place to stay when the world stresses me out. When I get to that stressful point I go to that safe place, instead of getting out and about dealing with all the variables that can take me for a ride. I think it's good to kind of put yourself on lockdown for a day or two. Better to stay in and watch TV for a couple of days then do things you might regret. I've been there before and it's a rollercoaster ride, like really on a rollercoaster; you're getting tossed from left to right all while you're trapped in your seat. It may feel like fun at times, but it is still a trap and the thrills aren't as real as they seem.
Here are some dot point tips for reintegrating which has worked for me so far, but please remember I'm a human being so I can't say that it's been perfect these first weeks, but I can say my little hacks have given me a better start.
I was released about four weeks ago and I was quite stressed. To be completely honest, I didn't really want to leave. The truth is, I loved prison and it became part of my identity. It was a place where I could do all the things I love without getting sucked into the outside world full of distractions that can take you for a mad ride. The outside can become overwhelming: the stress of not knowing where you're going to sleep; if you can afford your next meal; or if you can even bear to see your family after slipping up and relapsing into drug use. I know these problems all too well.
But I want to figure out how to make it work on the outside. I want to be closer to the path of freedom. So I thought I'd share some little tricks that I have been implementing to try to keep me less distracted.
There are a lot of things we think about when we are locked up: plans for the future, bucket lists, training routines. We write them down with high hopes only to get out and never look at those books and lists full of dreams.
Being close to everything is how we are naturally supposed to live. But now in the last hundred or so years, we started expanding yet isolating at the same time. We built a system dependent on working for other people to help them achieve their goals. We once would work our crops and animals to feed and spend time with our families. Now we sacrifice the majority of our time doing jobs for the sake of others. We forget who we are, we forget what we love, we get told what to do but don't get informed how to be.
If there's one thing I can take from prison that we can use in society is try to remember to take the time to disconnect from the expectations of society and do the things that you love.
Take a break from being a part of the world. Use maybe 30 mins everyday to turn off all devices and do something that you would do while you were in prison. Read, cook, paint, train, write, or just simply talk to the people around you.
One example which has worked for me is finding something that I can use as a form of muster. Being a convert to Islam, I've started using the midday 12:30 prayer as my half-way point of the day. So just like in prison when I would train until 10:30 then eat etc,, this is something that I found I can do to muster myself and break up the overwhelmingly long days where we can do both everything and nothing.
I must admit it is more difficult on the outside to remember to break up the day but I'm quite lucky that I have a place to stay when the world stresses me out. When I get to that stressful point I go to that safe place, instead of getting out and about dealing with all the variables that can take me for a ride. I think it's good to kind of put yourself on lockdown for a day or two. Better to stay in and watch TV for a couple of days then do things you might regret. I've been there before and it's a rollercoaster ride, like really on a rollercoaster; you're getting tossed from left to right all while you're trapped in your seat. It may feel like fun at times, but it is still a trap and the thrills aren't as real as they seem.
Here are some dot point tips for reintegrating which has worked for me so far, but please remember I'm a human being so I can't say that it's been perfect these first weeks, but I can say my little hacks have given me a better start.
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As well as feeling excited about your release, you may also be feeling fearful that something will go wrong so that your release will be delayed, or that you won’t be able to make it once you’re released.
Studying after you leave prison may be a good option to help you learn new skills and give you more options and opportunities for employment. Studying can also help keep you motivated after leaving prison.
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