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Experiences

It’s hope, it’s connection, it’s the one moment in a day when the walls don’t feel quite so high. Inside prison, days can feel endless and sometimes the only thing that keeps you going is the thought you might get to hear the voice of someone you love.
Most people think a prison phone call is just a phone call. For those living in it, it is much more.
A 10-minute phone call costs around $2.50, and many of the inmates skip buy-ups, snacks and small comforts just to afford those precious moments. Some aren’t as fortunate – some have nobody to call, nobody to answer the call and nobody waiting on the outside.
For those who do, those 10-minute calls become priceless. You wait all day, replay conversations in your head and think about what they are thinking and what you will say.
Then finally the phone connects and for a brief moment, everything feels normal again. You ache to hear their voice, their laughter, and the words you have been waiting to hear.
It’s hope, it’s connection, it’s the one moment in a day when the walls don’t feel quite so high. Inside prison, days can feel endless and sometimes the only thing that keeps you going is the thought you might get to hear the voice of someone you love.
Most people think a prison phone call is just a phone call. For those living in it, it is much more.
A 10-minute phone call costs around $2.50, and many of the inmates skip buy-ups, snacks and small comforts just to afford those precious moments. Some aren’t as fortunate – some have nobody to call, nobody to answer the call and nobody waiting on the outside.
For those who do, those 10-minute calls become priceless. You wait all day, replay conversations in your head and think about what they are thinking and what you will say.
Then finally the phone connects and for a brief moment, everything feels normal again. You ache to hear their voice, their laughter, and the words you have been waiting to hear.
For those 10 minutes you are not defined by your cell or a prison number, you are simply a partner, a son, a father, a brother, a friend – someone talking to the people who matter the most.
Then comes the waiting. The call ends and if you are lucky enough to call again, you must wait another 5 minutes before even trying. When every seconds counts, those 5 minutes can feel like forever.
The hardest days are when communication stops altogether and the loved one waits by their phone, worried and wondering while inmates sit helplessly, unable to explain the silence.
People often say prison is the punishment, but the reality is that families carry part of the sentence too. They wait, they worry, they miss us and they hold on hope just as tightly as we do.
That’s why prison phone calls mean so much. They are not just conversations, they are reassurance, they are love, they are a lifeline.
They remind us that despite the fences, the distance and the years, someone is still there waiting. And sometimes 10 minutes of hearing a familiar voice is enough hope to carry you through another day.
For those 10 minutes you are not defined by your cell or a prison number, you are simply a partner, a son, a father, a brother, a friend – someone talking to the people who matter the most.
Then comes the waiting. The call ends and if you are lucky enough to call again, you must wait another 5 minutes before even trying. When every seconds counts, those 5 minutes can feel like forever.
The hardest days are when communication stops altogether and the loved one waits by their phone, worried and wondering while inmates sit helplessly, unable to explain the silence.
People often say prison is the punishment, but the reality is that families carry part of the sentence too. They wait, they worry, they miss us and they hold on hope just as tightly as we do.
That’s why prison phone calls mean so much. They are not just conversations, they are reassurance, they are love, they are a lifeline.
They remind us that despite the fences, the distance and the years, someone is still there waiting. And sometimes 10 minutes of hearing a familiar voice is enough hope to carry you through another day.
My name is David. I am a proud Yorta Yorta man currently locked up in Victoria.
It was mid-afternoon in the Port Campbell area, with a southerly wind blowing, and Henry and I were just about to leave the Boggy Creek Café.
Father’s Day can bring pride, guilt, sadness, hope, or all of them at once, and being in jail doesn’t stop that.
Being kind is something I find really challenging at times.